Resources · Take what helps
A little room to explore.
Useful words, thoughtful reading and questions to sit with. Read in your own time, without a login.
Explore, play, get a little curious
More in the mood to explore?
Pick what feels right. You can always change direction.
Articles by Devan
Relationships & connection · 4 min readWhy defensiveness hurts when you’re trying to be heard
When you share how something affected you and end up defending why you brought it up. A little room to understand what happens between us.
Relationships & connection · 4 min readThe human thing underneath disagreement: care.
Maybe we’re not as hopelessly divided as we’ve been led to believe. Our differences matter. So does the human thing underneath them.
Relationships & connection · 6 min readBeing welcomed vs being wanted.
There is a difference between being welcomed when you arrive and being wanted before you get there. Sometimes the longing is for care that reaches back.
Starting therapy · 6 min read
Starting therapy · 6 min readStarting therapy when you don’t know what to say.
You don’t have to be in crisis, explain everything neatly, or have the right words. A practical place to begin if you’re thinking about therapy with me.
